"Speech that causes no agitation, that is true, pleasant, and beneficial — this is the austerity of speech."
Modern explanation
When the day pushes against you, remember: The way you speak shapes the relationships you have. Truth alone is not enough; truth carried with care is.
Practical application
Ask one question and listen to the full answer without forming your reply.
Reflection question
Am I trying to be right, or trying to be close?