"You grieve for those who should not be grieved for, yet speak words of wisdom. The wise grieve neither for the living nor for the dead."
Modern explanation
When the day pushes against you, remember: Honor the grief, but do not let it convince you that what you loved is gone forever.
Practical application
Let grief have its hour. Set a timer if needed. Then return to the living world.
Reflection question
Can I hold this pain without making it the whole story of who I am?