"You grieve for those who should not be grieved for, yet speak words of wisdom. The wise grieve neither for the living nor for the dead."
Modern explanation
In a moment of stillness, receive this: Honor the grief, but do not let it convince you that what you loved is gone forever.
Practical application
Place a hand on your heart and say: this hurts because it mattered. Both can be true.
Reflection question
What part of the love stays, no matter what?