"You grieve for those who should not be grieved for, yet speak words of wisdom. The wise grieve neither for the living nor for the dead."
Modern explanation
Begin today by remembering: Honor the grief, but do not let it convince you that what you loved is gone forever.
Practical application
Light a candle, name what you've lost, and let yourself feel without explaining it away.
Reflection question
How can I carry this love today without pretending it doesn't hurt?